Sister Stole My Boyfriend

Dear Sara,

I am fourteen years old and I had a boyfriend who is sixteen. My sister stole him away. She is also sixteen and she flirted with him and now they go places together. My parents won’t help. They say it has to be his choice. I don’t think this is fair. Is there anything I can do about this?

Dear Camryn,

At your age boyfriends and girlfriends tend to go apart rather quickly. It wasn’t very nice of your sister to flirt with your boyfriend but there isn’t much you can do about it. Apparently, you are an attractive girl who gets noticed by boys so maybe you will have a new boyfriend soon. Your best bet is to keep a smile on your face and be friendly to everyone.

Good luck,


  1. That was a weak answer. The greater problem is the unkindness of your sister and the lack of help from your parents. Sisters are supposed to have each ithers’ Backs not boy friends.

    Boy friends come and go. Families should be there for a long time… full of love, care and support. Work on that relationship first. Any boy that would leave someone for someone else is NOT worth your time! Find a young man who respects you for who you are. Flirting is fun but shallow! You are very young. Find value in many friends rather than just one boy friend. Remember, boys are about two years behind girls in the maturity area.

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