My sixteen-year-old daughter has applied for and gotten accepted for a job as a waitress in a restaurant. She can also do this part-time when she is in school. She is really excited to be earning money but I am not so sure. I really want her to go to college and I worry that this could take up time that she needs to study. I guess part of me feels that this is too soon for her to be out on her own working. Do you think sixteen is too young to have a job?
I think you have to consider how disappointed your daughter will be if you don’t allow her to take this opportunity. Sometimes as parents we have to pick our battles. You could let her try it and see how it goes. Does your daughter have plans for the money that she will earn? You could make a condition that she put a portion of her money into savings for her college tuition. You could insist that she keeps a certain grade level when she is in school. If she is very social she may decide that her job is getting in the way of her social life. If she can handle everything a job could be good experience for her.