Role Playing Or Perversion

Dear Sara,

My husband and I have been married a year now. I am small and petite and he likes for me to dress up as a little girl. I love him very much and don’t see any harm in role-playing. The thing that worries me is that if I get pregnant and have a little girl, will he be attracted to her in this way. How can I tell the difference between how he feels about me and how he actually feels about little girls?

Dear Nicole,

I don’t think you will be able to figure this out on your own. You can have this discussion with your husband but you can’t be sure that he would tell you the truth. You could watch how he treats the children in your family and see how he interacts with them. You could also check to see what he looks at on the Internet. If you don’t trust your new husband this will eventually put a wedge between you. I know it’s early in your marriage but you probably should seek counseling.

Good luck.


  1. Seems an obvious perversion. He should be watched and not be around children. I would divorce him.

  2. As you stated, some role-playing is harmless and making the leap of assumption that he is a pervert is a huge stretch. My God if you’re that worried, maybe you’re too much of a chicken-little worry wart to even BE married! Get over it and cross that bridge ONLY in the slight chance that it ever comes to pass.

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